You whats really annoying? People who think they know you and what know what you need. I've noticed another social norm that the majority continues to believe - that once you break up with someone - you will instantly whore around and are incapable of immediately having another realtionship. What ive gotten from multiple people is that I need 3-4 months before i can handle dating again. That is the timline that has been given to me... i guess everyone else knows what's best for me - god forbid I figure that out for myself.
So why? why do i have to wait 3 months? Will I actually be that different then - from today? So I guess if I meet someone I really like in the next 3 months I just need to hope and pray they will still be there when Im more "mature" and "capable" of dating someone seriously. super.
So far - people other than myself have told me that its abnormal to be single and 30 & Im incapable of having a relationship until August... Lets round up and make it Labor Day
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Did you forget my advice? I have always said to you that it doesn't matter how long it has been but rather where you are in your head with all of this. If you are ready then you will meet someone and the time since your previous relationship will not matter a bit! Are these comments coming from women saying they won't date you because it hasn't been long enough or is this just advice from anyone you talk to (besides me!)?
Im with you 100% - it was said to me this weekend as well as a few times prior.
Most people dont think I am ready cause most arent. I had a head start with with break up so really im probably already 4 months done...
The best way to get over one person is to get under another.
Youre wise wise man young Classic...
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